Dating emotionally abused women
The healing process is different for everyone, and trying to rush the process may backfire.
And I’m only able to do this because on a hot July afternoon I picked up my broken body from the concrete floor and limped out of the door, without looking backward. Nobody was there to protect me from the madness, nor did they hold me by the arm while I walked on a strained ankle and battered knee. But I didn’t, knowing that if I took even a second longer than necessary he might kill me. It wasn’t easy to come home to a house that didn’t have electricity or running water. I wasn’t sure who made decisions or why they were made, but I wanted to find out.I ignored this to my own peril because I was distracted by hot sex or something else.Now, I have the greatest sympathy for victims of abuse and in no way wish to denigrate the victims.In essence the abuse victim who has not received help, will often become abusive to their loved ones.In my experience this is in the form of emotional abuse, withholding affection, "going off for no apparent reason" or all the psycho behavior described in the article about psycho woman on this site.