Dating but not boyfriend and girlfriend
We were good friends for 5 months before one-night things changed and we ended up having sex.
I’ve been dating this girl now for 2 and a half months.
Really, the problem here is how he treated you when he got nervous.
So I have been trying to not call her as much, and some days I just ignore her and do my own thing.Boyfriends and girlfriends have come and gone, but my friends with benefits have stood the test of time. That’s longer than I predict my first marriage will last.And while I can’t imagine being with my Cuba date “for real”—I mean, he’s a low-key homeless anarchist who once took me on date to his Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous meeting; there are red flags—I still value our relationship immensely.In a few days, I’m going to Cuba on vacation with a guy I’ve been sleeping with for eight years, but whom I've never once called my boyfriend.We live on different continents, but inevitably, a few times a year, we find each other somewhere in the world, have a few days of romance, and then go our separate ways.