Of course, many people now use social media sites as a proxy for dating sites.
That’s another strategy altogether, so here we will focus on sites devoted to dating a meeting people online.
By the time your date comes around, she’ll already have lost interest or have found someone more attentive.
What the hell are you supposed to say about yourself in your profile? [pagebreak] OUT-OF-TOWN AND OUT OF TOUCH The scenario: “A guy sent me a message saying that he wanted to meet up for a drink, but when I asked when he was free, he said he was ‘going out of town’ for the next two weeks and that we should schedule something after.” — Andrea, 31 The problem..the solution: If you tell a girl you’re “going out of town,” she’s going to assume you’re busy dating other women.If you are taking this business of finding a mate seriously, you should spend some time to compose your online profile.Besides your photo, your profile is all that you have to introduce you to the reader.A good rule of thumb: if you aren’t available for a date within 7 days of sending the message, don’t send it.NOT-SO-SMOOTH OPERATOR The scenario: “I recently received a message that said, ‘Damn you’re a pretty white girl, you into muscular black men?